I hate the idea that women are supposed to be weak.
I hate the idea that men are better.
I hate the idea the women are housewives only.
And I ESPECIALLY loathe, abhor, and utterly detest the idea that men think it is their duty to comment on our bodies!!!
Yes, I have a small chest. Do you think that I do not know that? But my chest size does not affect where I'm going and what I'm doing in life. I can have fun, and be a woman, without a size C or D chest.
What gives the guy walking by, the right to comment "You need some knee pads, girly."?
Why can my best friend's boyfriend call me "Grapes"? It's not like I don't agonize over it. I can't say that I've never worn two padded bras under a tight shirt.
I hate the fact that I am 5'4", and weigh 100 lbs. I hate when people call me anorexic, or ask me if I have an eating disorder. I was recently at a party, walking around with one guy, who found it necessary to repeatedly comment on my body size. His stale little joke, "You're anorexic. Ha." I about slapped him. My only regret is that I didn't kick his ass.
Some believe that society wants everyone to be thin and gorgeous. This is true. However, it's a narrow median for perfect, and models are a whole other species. Curvy, thin, with voluptuous breasts, and a perfect face. There are so many beautiful people out there. Why do we only showcase a certain breed?
I may be little, but I have a quick temper. I can kick most guys asses in a fight. I'm not scared of anyone, and I like who I am. I know I'm not gorgeous, but I don't think I'm ugly either. I like my body size.
And God help you if you choose to comment on it.